Hope you all enjoyed the “workout” playlist that was given to you in the last article, and hopefully you broke a sweat. Sorry there hasn’t been anything written in a while, but it takes a lot of time to “deeply” research more topics for you all. It’s become clear to me that a lot of you either don’t go down on your partner, aren’t good at it or simply just don’t like to do it.
Regardless, how could you expect to receive any if you don’t give any yourself, it’s like Christmas people. Be your partners’ Santa Clause; Christmas can “come” anytime of the year.
Helping your partner “come” home for the holidays is a fun and helpful task for the both of you. As Matthew McConaughey says in Wolf of Wall Street, “I don’t do it cause I want to, I do it cause I need to. I keep the rhythm below the belt.”
In this scene he’s talking about masturbating, but he still brings up great points on why it’s so important to be “relaxed.”
Now, you’re probably saying, “But, I don’t know what I’m doing,” or, “That’s disgusting, why would I want to go down there.” It’s simple, stop being such a “cat” or a “Richard” and get to work on theirs.
As for those not knowing what to do, read on.
First things first, be the realest; show her why she matters to you. Set a mood and seduce her to prepare her for when you go down. Kiss and lick every part of her body, making the perfect map that leads straight to her treasure. Don’t immediately go hard off the back, start soft kissing, licking and sucking on her clitoris (the most sensitive part of her body) while she gets warmer and warmer, slowly getting wetter.
As you’re doing this use your hands in other ways, finger her with one hand while the other caresses her breasts. Most girls enjoy the different pleasures that come with so many satisfying acts occurring at once; just think back to when you last went to the circus.
The final little tip would be: don’t be afraid of sticking your tongue inside her. If you follow these steps you’ll have her saying, “I like it a lot!”
On the other end of the spectrum, women, don’t let the guy do all the work and once he finishes you; the ball(s) in your court.
When going down on a guy, for the love of him do not use your teeth. It doesn’t feel good when a guy is having a cheese grader going up and down on his penis. The man’s tip of his penis has been proven to be the most sensitive part of his body, utilize this ladies and gentlemen. Kiss and lick all around the tip, but don’t just do this to the tip; go head and do it to the entire penis too, make sure he’s fully ready.
Once he’s ready, go ahead and take it all; if you can’t, do the best you can, he’s happy that you’re even doing it. After you begin, be sure to have your hands involved too, have them going up and down with you, intensifying your man’s pleasure. When he’s ready to “relax” don’t be afraid to swallow his children. Fellahs, if you expect them to swallow, QUIT eating nasty stuff and watch what you eat. Nobody wants to swallow a bunch of nasty, salty icing from your pastry bag.
Don’t forget, this is not a one, two, three step process; it’s going to take time, like all good things, for them to “come” to an end.
Going down on one another person is not only amazing for both of you, but it can bring you and your partner closer together as a couple. This is arguably one of the most intimate times two people can share with one another, don’t waste it on a poor time. Go in having a good attitude and communicate on what you like and don’t like, it truly makes a difference.
